For a variety of reasons, you are afraid of fat. You’ve been taught to think and feel this way. You’ve been taught that eating fat will give you high cholesterol and heart disease. You’ve been taught that eating fat will make your body fat.

It’s logical. It makes sense. Why shouldn’t you think this way? If you put fat in your body then you’re going to get fat, right?

The truth is your body actually needs fat. In fact, approximately 20 – 40% of your total caloric intake should come from healthy fats. That’s why it occurs naturally in almost everything we eat.

Healthy Fat? What’s That?

You’ve probably heard different “experts” talking about polyunsaturated, monounsaturated, saturated, and trans fats and which ones to eat and which ones to avoid. Unfortunately, the advice you get varies from one expert to the next and it’s all too much to remember. It makes trying to shop for healthy food extremely difficult and confusing.

Fortunately, you don’t really need to worry about that. The answer to which fats are healthy and which fats are not is really quite simple. It’s actually not even so much a matter of what kinds of fat as it is the history of the fat.

Confused? Let me explain.

Generally speaking, any fat that occurs naturally and is consumed in is original and natural state is a healthy fat. On the other hand, fats that have been through any sort of processing (meaning humans have messed with it) are generally unhealthy.

It’s a pretty clear and simple rule and it makes food selection much simpler. To say it even more simply:

Natural Fat = Good; Processed Fat = Bad

Now that you’ve got the rule down, let’s look at some examples. Everything you eat should come from either a plant or an animal, so we’ll look at examples from those two categories.

Animal Fats – The Good And The Bad

For the most part, if you’re eating something from an animal then it is probably either meat or some form of dairy product, so let’s focus our attention there.

Unless you hunt and fish for all your meat, the meat you consume was raised in one of two ways:

1. Fed by humans with some combination of synthetic and natural food sources
2. In a natural environment on completely natural food sources

Can you guess which one is healthier for you? The correct answer is of course number two.

In many mass production farms that raise animals for consumption, the animals are not fed their natural diet. Instead, they are given antibiotics, hormones, and other things that are intended to make the farms production more efficient and cost effective. Unfortunately, these things have a trickle down effect on you.

Your other option is to eat meats that come from animals that were raised in their natural environment and allowed to eat their natural diet. It is more expensive and less efficient to raise animals this way, but the end result is much better for you.

The same thing goes for dairy products, they either come from animals on a natural diet or from animals on a synthetic diet. Again, the natural diet produces the healthiest food for you. On top of that, most dairy products go through a few processes that make them less healthy for you (i.e. pasteurization, homogenization). Milk fat is actually quite good for you if you can find milk that hasn’t been processed.

Plant Fats – The Good And The Bad

Just like animal based food products, you have two options when it comes to plant based food products:

1. Chemically altered and/or heavily processed
2. Naturally occurring with little to no processing

As before, number two is the better choice.

When it comes to plant based foods, most of the fat is in nuts and oils. These fats can actually be quite good for you if they are not heavily processed.

What you want to look for here is the words “organic” or “natural.” For example, when you buy your peanut butter, look for a bottle that says it is organic. You should be able to notice a difference in the ingredients list of the organic peanut butter versus the regular peanut butter.

In fact, the ingredients list can be a good guide for you when selecting plant based foods. If the ingredients list contains things that you don’t immediately recognize as coming from a farm or garden, then it’s probably not the best choice for you.

Some Sources Of Good Fats

Here are a few examples of foods that will give your body the healthy fats it needs:

• Nuts
• Seeds
• Avocados
• Organic Peanut Butter
• Fish

Remember that 20 – 40% of your calories should come from good fats. This list is just an example. There are many other good sources of healthy fat. Just stick to the rule I mentioned above and you should be fine.

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Why aren’t you raising your hand? I thought fad diets were so popular because they work so well. Shouldn’t we all be raising our hands right now?

Okay, so you get the point. I’m not a big fan of fad diets. I don’t like them because they don’t work. These diets are surrounded by lots of hype and plenty of testimonials, but the reality is that they don’t produce sustainable and healthy weight loss. More often than not, in the long run a fad diet will leave you the same or worse off than before you started the diet.

So, why don’t these diets work? I’ll give you the long answer in a minute, but Certified Nutrition Specialist Mike Geary summed it up perfectly in his book The Truth About Six Pack Abs. Simply put…

The problem with most fad diets is that they typically limit consumption of a certain macronutrient (protein, carbs, or fat) or food group, and therefore tend to fight against what your body needs to function most efficiently.

So what’s wrong with limiting certain foods in your diet? You’ve been taught that fats and carbs are bad for you. You’ve been taught that they are the secret evil ingredients that make you fat, and if you can just make yourself completely avoid them then your excess fat will magically melt away never to return again.

Well, the truth is quite the opposite. Your body needs fat and your body needs carbohydrates. If you do not get enough of them, certain bodily processes (the ones that naturally fight fat storage and promote fat burning) start to shut down. Since most popular diets focus on limiting or completely avoiding fats and carbs, lets look at some of the negative impacts of reducing fats and carbs in your diet.

Negative Impacts Of Limiting Carbs In Your Diet

• Loss of lean muscle
• A lower Resting Metabolic Rate (RMR)
• Reduced muscle glycogen levels
• Less energy
• Muscles start to look flat or deflated
• Reduced ability to recover quickly from workouts

Negative Impacts Of Limiting Fat In Your Diet

• Hormonal imbalances
• Increased hunger and cravings
• Your body craves carbohydrates to compensate for reduction in fat
• Reduced performance of fat burning metabolic processes
• Reduced ability to perform numerous essential bodily processes and functions

Okay, so now you’re confused. On the one hand, you have been told not to eat fats and carbs. On the other hand, I’m telling you that bad things will happen if you don’t eat fats and carbs. So, which is it?

As with many things in life, the answer is moderation. More specifically, moderation and knowledge. You shouldn’t eat too many fats and carbs, and you shouldn’t avoid them completely. On top of that, it is also essential to eat the right kinds of fats and carbs.

Learning how to eat properly can be difficult, but it is an essential part of living a happy and healthy life. If you want to lose your excess body fat the right way and keep it off forever, I suggest learning about and understanding the roles that fats, carbs and the other main components of your diet play in storing or burning body fat.

One of the best guides I have found on eating the right way to burn fat is The Truth About Six Pack Abs. It explains things very well and helped me understand how you can lose weight without avoiding any food groups or classes of macronutrients. Give it a read and you’ll be glad you did.

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I’m usually not a big fan of “diets”, but the eDiets Meal Delivery plan is such an easy way to diet that you almost can’t go wrong. Just make sure you don’t order meal plans for two people and eat them all yourself. Other than that, the eDiets Meal Delivery system is a pretty fool proof way to diet. If you need the extra help in preparing healthy meals, give eDiets a shot. I think you will be pleased.

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Do you really care about the amount of force exerted on the mass of your body by the earth’s gravitational field? I’m going to guess you don’t. What you are really concerned with is the percentage of your body that is composed of fat verses the percentage of your body that is composed of muscle. Having a body weight goal is okay as long as you pair it with a body fat percentage goal. Without both sides of the goal, you may find that you have successfully arrived at your body weight goal only to find out that you are now simply a smaller version of your old fat self. That’s not what you want. Instead, make sure all your hard work pays off with a new you that looks, feels, and is healthier than when you set your weight loss and six pack abs goals.

I read a perfect example of this in an article in The Wall Street Journal called The Scales Can Lie: Hidden Fat. It is about a Mayo Clinic study which found that many people with a “normal” or “healthy” Body Mass Index (BMI) and weight are suffering from a condition that they termed “normal weight obesity.” This term refers to people who look skinny, and have a BMI and weight that are within normal parameters, but have too much body fat. If you are at a reasonable body weight, but your belly and arms feel squishy when you poke them, you may be one of these people.

So, what should you do about it? As I said earlier, stop worrying about your body weight and start paying attention to your body fat and muscle mass. You need to engage in diet and exercise that will help you build muscle and get rid of your unwanted body fat. If after reading that last sentence your first thoughts were of crash diets and treadmills, I want you to slap yourself. No, harder than that. We have to get those thoughts out of your head to make room for the things that will actually help you. If those methods worked, we wouldn’t have such a huge obesity problem on our hands. You need to start thinking in terms of full-body strength training exercises and well balanced meals consisting mostly of natural unprocessed foods.

Whenever I recommend strength training and building muscle to loss body fat, I feel like I am going to scare off all the women. I find that many women tend to be afraid of building muscle because they think it will make them bulky or it will make them gain weight. Gaining weight is the last thing they want to do so why would they want to build muscle? Well, like I said, weight is a meaningless number by itself. If your body fat percentage is way down and you look great, why should you care what you weigh? We don’t wear our weights on our chests like a scarlet letter. If you look and feel good, nobody is going to know or care how much you weigh.

Let me give you an example from The Wall Street Journal article. They interviewed a 34-year-old woman who weighed 170 pounds at just over 30% body fat when she started dieting and doing some aerobic exercises. She was able to lose 45 pounds which brought her down to a weight of 125 pounds. This is a great improvement, but she was still at 25% body fat. She wanted to look even better, so she added strength training to her routine. Over the next 18 months she gained 20 pounds taking her back to 145 pounds. Oh no! What happened? Strength training made her fatter! No, it made her weigh more. There is a big difference. In gaining that extra 20 pounds, she was able to get her body fat percentage down to 14! Now imagine what you would look like at 14% body fat. As women are recommended to have higher body fat percentages than men, 14% is phenomenal for a woman. Do you think she got upset at gaining 20 pounds when it allowed her to drop 11 percentage points in body fat? Not a chance and neither should you.

I hope you can see the merits of focusing on body fat instead of body weight. It’s time to start educating yourself about how to eat properly and exercise correctly. I recommend two programs that will teach you these principles and will help you meet your body fat goals. They are The Truth About Abs and No-Nonsense 6 Pack. They are both great programs so pick the one that looks the most interesting to you, order it today, and get started cutting down your body fat.

For more information about eating properly to lose fat, I also recommend The Fat Burning Kitchen. To monitor your progress, you should also consider getting a body fat scale.

I’m not really a big fan of obsessing over calories, but when you eat out or at a work place cafeteria on a regular basis, it would be beneficial to you to learn how to count and keep track of your calories. Being conscious of calories allows you to make informed decisions when you are making food choices.

Jillian Michaels is a personal trainer on the NBC show Biggest Loser and she is a proponent of counting calories. Watch the video below from TIME.com for some tips from Jillian on how to choose the healthiest foods when you are eating away from home.

There are a few things that stuck out to me in this video. One of the main things was Jillian’s comments about diet soda. I have heard several nutrition expert recommend avoiding all sodas, including diet, but I have never heard a good explanation about why you should avoid diet sodas. Jillian points out that the artificial sweeteners used in diet sodas trigger the release of a hormone called Neuropeptide Y. Wikipedia has the following to say about Neuropeptide Y (NPY):

The main effect is increased food intake and decreased physical activity. NPY is secreted by the hypothalamus, and in addition to increasing food intake, it increases the proportion of energy stored as fat…

Another thing Jillian Michaels points out is that you need to educate yourself about the amounts of calories in different kinds of foods. As she says, you can buy a calorie counting book or even a calorie counting iPhone App to make it really easy for yourself.

Portion control is another thing that stood out to me. When you know how many calories are in a particular food, you know how much of that food you can eat. If you are really hungry, fill up on lower calorie foods. If you really must have something that is high in calories, only eat a little bit of it.

The video has some great tips in it. Anything you can do to make your meals healthier is a good idea. You should also check out Jillian’s new book, Master Your Metabolism: The 3 Diet Secrets to Naturally Balancing Your Hormones for a Hot and Healthy Body!. For more tips on exercise and healthy eating, visit Jillian’s website.

I found this story very intriguing. The requirement was that all students had to either have a BMI of 30 or below or else they had to take a class on nutrition. If neither option was completed before graduation, the student would not be able to graduate. Apparently, many (or at least the loudest portion) of the students felt that the requirement was “unfair” and “biased.”

I find this sad for a few reasons. The reason that is applicable to this website, and perhaps the most important, is that so many people want to fight against something that was put in place to help them get healthier. You can debate whether or not the policy would have been effective or if it was the best way, but it seems clear to me that the intention was good.

In a society where obesity is quickly getting out of control, perhaps all colleges and universities should be more proactive in teaching their students how to care for their bodies. The role of higher education is to help young people prepare for life and the workplace. Being healthy is very much a part of this. There are disadvantages to being over weight in both life and business. The students can cry about discrimination all they want, but the harsh reality is that they are only hurting themselves by fighting against those who are trying to help them.

Obesity causes, or contributes to, health problems. This can be a problem when finding employment and health insurance. Businesses carry a large portion of the healthcare cost of their employees. Health problems related to obesity can also cause absence from work. There is no reason why these factors should not influence an employer’s hiring decisions. Many businesses already offer incentives to their employees if they will take certain health improvement steps and penalties if they do not. I suspect that this trend will continue and become more prevalent over time. If students are subjected to similar situations in school, it will only help to prepare them for the realities of the work place, and they may even be healthier for it.

Your health is important. If you need to lose weight to improve your health, there is no time like the present to get started. Find a weight loss program that will give you the structure and motivation you need and then get started today.

I recently stumbled across a book that teaches you how to make these incremental diet and lifestyle changes and save money in the process. With times being tight, and the ongoing struggle to lose weight, it seems like the perfect combination of topics. The name of the book is The Tight Arse Diet. This isn’t the type of book that will teach you how to drop 10 pounds in a week. The book is all about taking it slow and losing weight and saving money over time. I know that everyone wants results now now now, but sometimes you just have to take a step back, look at the big picture, and do things the right way. If you want results that will last, it’s a good way to do it. Pick up a copy of the book and see what you think. Even one tip that results in a positive change in your life will be worth the price.

If you’ve read the book, let me know what you thought about it.

I like this study because it shows that just a little bit of improvement in weight loss can make meaningful improvements in the health and function of your heart. It is easy to think that getting in shape is all about being vain and wanting others to think you have a nice body. It is important to remember that there are health benefits as well, and ultimately the health benefits are more important. If you’ve let your health slip over the years, there is no time like the present to decide to make a change. Get on a good exercise program today and your heart will thank you tomorrow.

If you are really intent on losing stomach fat and getting great abs, you need to be more concerned with what you eat and how you exercise instead of just worrying about how many calories you consume. A great guide that will teach you both of these things is The Truth About Six Pack Abs. I recommend you check it out.

Personally, I never pay any attention to how many calories I eat. This doesn’t mean I pig out on junk food, I just don’t count calories. I can do this because I have enough muscle mass to burn off the calories I consume. This is something you need to consider. Did you know that you burn between 35 and 50 calories a day for every pound of muscle in your body. That’s without doing any extra work. You burn those calories just by being alive and having that muscle. Think about it. If you gained just 10 pounds of muscle, that’s 500 extra calories a day that your body will burn off. Now compare that to how many hours you would have to spend on the treadmill to burn off those same 500 calories, and you would have to do it every day. The extra muscle wins hands down.

If you are a female, you may think that gaining 10 pounds of muscle is a terrible idea when what you are trying to do is lose weight. The last thing you want to do is add another 10 pounds. What you need to understand is weight is a meaningless number by itself. Many things play a factor in determining body weight. What you really need to pay attention to is body fat vs muscle mass. Muscle is much denser than fat and therefore weights more than fat. Gaining 10 pounds of muscle is not going to look the same on your body as gaining 10 pounds of fat. When you consider the benefits of gaining the extra muscle, it makes sense. It’s going to help that unwanted fat melt away and once the fat is gone, that extra muscle tone is going to help you look extra sexy. Trust me on this one.

And one more thing, I’ve held this opinion on calories forever, but I got the inspiration to write this post from a post that I stumbled upon at Fitness4Her.com. It’s a great resource for women if you want to check it out. I don’t know much about it, but from the little time I spent on the site it looks like they have some good resources available.

If you have anything to share about counting calories or building muscle to burn calories, please leave a comment.

Despite our tendencies to overindulge ourselves when we celebrate, we can make it healthier for ourselves by keeping it under control. Here are a few simple things you can do to help yourself enjoy Thanksgiving without wanting to beat yourself up afterwards.

Start with a glass of water

When you sit down to enjoy your Thanksgiving meal, pour yourself a large glass of water. Drink the entire glass of water before you eat anything. The idea here is that you want to fill up your stomach, to a degree, before you start eating. Your stomach can only hold so much, so if you fill it up part way with water then you will feel full sooner once you start eating. You may still get that nasty feeling like you ate too much, but since part of the fullness is coming from water, your stomach will reach it’s capacity before you overeat.

Don’t cheat on this. It has to be water (no juice or soft drinks) and you need to drink the entire glass.

Enjoy your food

Many people tend to eat quickly. Slow it down and enjoy your food. Take time to chew each bite completely and enjoy the flavors. There is a lot of good food on Thanksgiving, so this shouldn’t be too difficult.  Chewing is part of the digestion process and fully chewed food makes the rest of the process easier on your body.

Take breaks between bites.  Engage others in conversation and give your food time to settle into your stomach. It takes a little time for your brain to catch up with your mouth. If you eat too quickly, you may find that you have overeatten before you even realized that you were feeling full. If you slow it down a little, your body will let you know when you have eaten enough food and that will make it easier to stop at an appropriate time.

Have a healthy snack

This tip is along the same lines as drinking a glass of water. We want to fill our stomachs with good food before we start on the less healthy food. Try eating a piece of fruit about 30 minutes to an hour before your big Thanksgiving meal. This will make you less hungry and less likely to overeat when dinner time comes.

Decide to be good

As a bonus tip, just make the decision to not overeat. Afterall, it is up to us how much we eat. Nobody is going to force us to overeat. If you really want to be good to your body, you have the ability to decide not to overeat and to take the neccessary steps.

I hope these tips help you get more out of your Thanksgiving without feeling guilty afterwards. Good luck and remember your eyes are bigger than your stomach.